The Method

Understanding Prioritize Us

These 10 core life priorities form the foundation of the Prioritize Us method. Each represents a fundamental dimension of how we live, love, and connect. Understanding what each means helps you rank them authentically.

1

💼 Career

Your focus on professional growth, ambition, and work-life balance.

2

💬 Communication

The importance of open, honest conversation and emotional check-ins.

3

🎭 Entertainment

How you value hobbies, fun, downtime, and shared leisure.

4

💰 Finances

Your approach to budgeting, saving, spending, and long-term security.

5

🌱 Growth

Commitment to learning, self-improvement, and personal development.

6

❤️ Health

Focus on physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

7

👥 Relationships

Value placed on family, friends, and your social circle.

8

🛡️ Safety

The need for emotional and financial security, and predictability in life.

9

✨ Sex

Priority on intimacy, physical connection, and shared desires.

10

🕊️ Spirituality

Importance of faith, spiritual practice, or personal meaning.

Pro Tip

When ranking, think about how you actually live — not how you wish you lived. Your honest rankings reveal your true values, which is the foundation for meaningful conversation with your partner.

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